Amnesia Music Video

Amnesia Music Video!!!

It's finally here!! And it's perfect obvi! After all of the drama yesterday about Luke kissing a girl in the video, we finally get to see if all of the rumors were true! I may or may not have watched it on repeat since it came out. That's all you need to know. Watch for yourself because I'm spoiling nothing. Just know it's perf! As if there was any chance it wouldn't be. Ok bye. I have to go watch it again.

Orlando Bloom vs Justin Bieber

Orlando Bloom vs Justin Bieber

It's been one day and I'm already completely annoyed with this. I know, Justin hasn't exactly been getting on everyone's good side lately with all of the crap he is pulling (he is 20 years old so shut up about it), but the fact that everyone is praising a grown ass man for trying to punch a 20 year old kid? Are you effing kidding me? What is so great about that? Nothing. Absolutely. Nothing. Especially when everyone would be freaking out if things were reversed and Justin swung at Orlando. I don't know what happened to cause the fight and neither do most of us. But seriously? Wayy to condone violence all of you celebrities out there tweeting Team Orlando. Everyone needs to shut up about this already. That includes Justin for stirring up more drama by posting those Insta photos. I didn't even really care until the internet made this a bigger deal than it actually is. Don't praise Orlando if you would shame Justin. Seriously everyone just shut up about it already and let them figure out their own problems. Bye.

5SOS Don't Care About Their Fans

5SOS Don't Care About Fans

My first thoughts when people say this are:

I don't think some of you understand how big they are actually getting right now. 

Number 1: Don't get angry when they can't meet you. Sometimes it's for your own safety. There are a lot of fans everywhere, and there is a big possibility that someone could get seriously hurt. Especially when the fans start mobbing them. Plus, they get almost no sleep. How about you try to run on about 3 hours of sleep a night for one week straight and see how you're feeling every day?

Number 2: The Forum. That's all I really have to say about this. They made getting tickets a freaking party. Not to mention they sold the tickets to the fans, did a signing and had an acoustic performance. How many other artists can you say did that? Did I forget to mention the Mariachi band they sent? Are you serious right now?

And number 3: If you're saying 5SOS don't care about their fans simply because you don't like them, just stop. You really are causing unnecessary drama. And if you cause drama for fun, please get a new hobby. Everyone is here to support their idols, stop trying to make them feel bad about who they are supporting. Spread love, not hate. :)

Harmonizers

Harmonizers

I feel like this is something that just needs to be said. No hate, no shade, just repeating what I have been hearing. I myself am not in the Fifth Harmony fandom, aka a Harmonizer. I am in other fandoms. Too many fandoms....Wayy too many fandoms. Which means I hear what every other fandom is talking about. And one thing I have heard repeatedly is that Harmonizers are the meanest fandom. 

No. Don't be happy about this Harmonizers. Don't take this as a win. It is not a good thing to be considered the meanest fandom. You're basically the bully here. And no one likes a bully. I don't know why most Harmonizers feel the need to be mean to everyone. It's not funny. It's not cute. It's bullying. And to you Harmonizers who are actually nice, here's a gold star.

Good job for not being a bully. Proud of you. For the rest of you, if you feel the need to be mean to those in other fandoms, then maybe you need to reevaluate what you are doing. Just think of how much more fun it would be to get along with other fandoms instead of constantly hating on them. That has to be exhausting. And no, I am not referring to every Harmonizer again, I know there are the ones out there who don't give your fandom a bad name. The point is, for the rest of you, you're giving the fandom a bad name, which will reflect on your idols, and I know you don't like when people think negatively about your girls, so why should everyone have to think negatively of you? Be nice!

Payzer vs Sophiam

Payzer vs Sophiam

Ok, this is something that should have been done a while ago. The Payzer vs Sophiam drama. I understand, just about everyone loved Liam Payne with Danielle Peazer, aka Payzer. And yes, everyone was heartbroken when they broke up the last time. But Liam is dating Sophia now, aka Sophiam, so this whole "I miss Payzer" crap needs to stop. Now. Number one, I'm sure it can't be great for Danielle to read comments every day about her ex boyfriend. Whether they're civil towards each other or not, I know I would be annoyed as hell. I can only imagine how she feels seeing Payzer in the comments of every single thing she does. I wouldn't blame her if she just refused to read any of the comments after she posted an Instagram picture or tweeted. 

Number 2, how do you think Sophia feels seeing comments from her boyfriend's fans saying they want Payzer back? Whether you like Sophia or not, which honestly you have no excuse to not like her because you don't even really know her, the fact is that she is who makes Liam happy now. And yes, they are an amazingly hot couple. I mean, just look at them: 

Point is, Payzer is over. Obviously they have all got on with their lives just fine, I'm sure we all can too. Maybe one day they'll get back together, but until then, let's just let Liam be happy with Sophia and stop comparing their relationship to the relationship that Danielle and Liam had before. I'm sure you wouldn't want everyone telling whoever you're dating or currently in love with to get back with their ex. And seriously, Stop. Commenting. Payzer. On. Every. Single. Post. I've said my piece. 

Has Shade Just Been Thrown?!

That Shade Real? Or Nah?

Drew Chadwick, former member of Emblem3, finally gave us what we all wanted...A SONG! Of course the lyrics were amazing. Dude has some serious songwriting skills. Shortly after he tweeted the video of the song, Wesley Stromberg, one of two remaining members of Emblem3, tweeted this to Drew:

While my first thoughts were "Aww that's cute. Yay they're not fighting!", it seems other people had the opposite reaction. There were plenty of tweets saying Wes was throwing shade at Drew for posting a song they had all written together.....

Seriously? Why must people point out the negative in everything? Totally killed my vibe. Totally killed it.

While I tried to look past it, I couldn't help but think shots may have been fired when Drew tweeted this:

In fact, my first words to this tweet were exactly "Shots fired. Shots have definitely been fired." Not even lying.  may have been a little heartbroken even. Only because I still have hope they will get back together one day. Also because Drew just said in an interview I had the amazing opportunity to watch being shot that maybe one day in the future they will do shows together again. His words, not mine. 

But my little heart put itself back together when I saw this:

So moral of the story here people, it really is not necessary to over analyze everything and find the negative in something positive. Can we not cause unnecessary drama? And any drama that may be going on between these boys, how about we let them settle that for themselves. Say nah to the shade this time.

5SOS Groupies?

5SOS Groupies?

Yes, you read that right. I've been seeing all over Twitter, Instagram and Tumblr about the boys of 5 Seconds of Summer having groupies. I'll admit, I definitely investigated, but when it really came down to it, I only really had one thought. Who. Cares. If they do, what do you really expect? They're 17 to 19 (Ashton now 20 but was 19 still while researching) boys who received an unexpected tour to tour worldwide with none other than One Direction. I'm sure they were not used to girls all over the world throwing themselves at them (not sure why they wouldn't) in every city they went as they definitely have now. They're boys. They're young. They're learning. They're trying to have fun. Trust me, I am not Team Groupie, but I'm also Team That's Not My Business. Yes, I hope all these rumors are false, but I'm not going to let it consume my mind at all times. I will love those boys whether they're drowning in groupies or video games. Seriously though people, don't believe everything that you read, and don't let one stupid story that may or may not be true ruin your opinion on them. Lastly, for 5SOS themselves, if this is true, I have one thing to say to you. Don't be silly, wrap your willy. Real talk. Peace.

How to end Cyber Bullying?

Ending Cyber Bullying

In the age of the Internet and socializing online there is a downfall. Many people go online to for information or for entertainment purposes. Many use social media to connect with others who have the same thing in common with them. In this way, social media is a very positive thing because it makes people feel more connected and less like they are a loner and have no one to talk to. However, there is always bad that comes with the good. 

Before, bullying used to be contained to the school hallways and maybe other public places. We've all seen the bully picking on the the kids in school by taking their lunch money or pulling other pranks on them. Now, they are able to bully anyone at any time and in any place. This bullying isn't even just name calling, but can actually lead to a person telling someone else to kill themselves, which is never okay. Sometimes, this ends tragically.

How can social media sites help to stop cyber bullying? Surely it is difficult to monitor the millions who are using their site all times, but is there a way that is more effective to help stop cyber bullying when it starts or even before it starts?

Heather Lynne, an avid social media user, believes "They should have a computerized system built into it (the social media site) that flags anyone who uses hate words that it recognizes and after so many posts that person gets their account suspended for x amount of time and sends them a notification to their email explaining why as well as a link about cyber bullying."

This is similar to what some social media sites do at the moment. Twitter has the option of reporting an account, and after so many reports they are suspended. However, the person can fight it and usually ends up getting their account back anyways, causing them to start the cyber bullying once again. 

Brett Schultz agrees with the computerized system, but takes it a step further, "I think if you get caught cyber bullying it should follow you, and every social site you use should be required to register as a cyber bully and everyone will know forever."

Diana Gebski had a similar opinion: "I think that there should be a way that cyber bullying can be tracked by the user that is doing the bullying and sites can have the option of running a cyber background check to see if someone is a repeat offender of cyber bullying. Then the site can have the option to either deny access or grant them access on a probationary period."

In all these cases, it seems it may be a great idea to have one system have the ability to track cyber bullying in all social media networks. There are currently many different organizations working to put an end to cyber bullying, so maybe sometime in the future the cyber world will have a more effective way of tracking and ending it as well. 

4th of July Drama

4th of July

Ok I know this has nothing to do with fandoms, but I couldn't not mention it. It's officially that time of the year again with the 4th of July posts being proud to be American. Yes, I do realize the other 364 days of the year we are complaining how much we hate our country, at least most of us are. But this is the one time of the year we can appreciate our country. I know a lot of people from other countries have already had enough of the freedom and liberty jokes, and I'm sure the British are tired of being reminded about their tea being tossed into the ocean already, but it's only for one day. Bare with it and it will be over before you know it and we'll be right back to hating our country all over again. Sometimes you have to see the good that comes with the bad, even if it is for only one day of the year. And you have to admit the tweets under the hashtags are pretty hilarious.

#AmericanFollowParty

#ReasonsToBeAmerican